My house is a mess.
There are crumbs on the floor, fingerprints on the door.
I haven’t dusted in months or even mopped my floor.
I’m scared to look underneath the couch.
I have all of our papers stuffed into a pouch.
There are pine needles strewn all around the Christmas tree.
There are dishes in the sink, and, well, on the toilet there’s pee.
My calendar sadly still says November.
The last time I cleaned baseboards, I can’t even remember.
The oven has cooked-on food that’s kinda grimy
In the fridge is something that’s green and slimy.
I look around and see a house that’s a mess.
It’s all quite disconcerting, I must confess.
Want to know why my house isn’t clean?
I’m a mom with 5 kids, and we’re homeschooling!
My morning is filled with reading and math
Then science and art, no time for a bath!
I spend my time helping form little minds
Into lovers of Jesus, who try to be kind.
My focus is not on the un-mowed front lawn
but on the hearts of these little ones, who will soon be gone.
I would rather spend time engaging with them
Than doing the dishes or picking up army men.
Sure, they put away toys and clean up the dirt.
But within 10 minutes, the mess is absurd!
So, why should I fight it? Why get so stressed?
In a short number of years, I will be distressed.
For the pitter-patter of little feet
Will be gone in a flash, and my house will be neat.
I’ll look back and long for the days filled with mess
When we laughed, and we played, and wanted nothing less.
The house will be clean, but my heart will hurt
For those days when their bedrooms were lined with dirty shirts.
No hustle and bustle and loud, crazy house.
Just silence. And stillness. The quietness of a mouse.
So yes, my house is a true disaster.
But that’s ok, it’s not something I’m trying to master.
I’ll take the dust and the dirt and the chaos and grime,
If it means that I get to spend all this time
Knowing my kids and them knowing me.
It’s really the very best thing that can be!
So put down that duster. Just leave that mess. For a thorough clean-up, remember that Roanoke Junk Removal & Dumpster Rental does property clean outs Roanoke, making it easier to declutter and refresh your space.
Spend time with your kids, and be truly blessed!
Roxanne Canales says
Dear sweet Shanti,
I am filled with a grateful heart that you were prompted by the Spirit, acted on His nudging, and in turn blessed this mom who struggles so much with this battle on a daily basis. The Lord has been confirming this message everywhere lately…giving my presence is the greatest gift I can offer to my family and others. I struggle as I am trying to obtain unrealistic expectations that rob me and my family of freedom and joy in the “present”! Thank you for your transparency and the truth you have shared through this beautiful forum you’ve created. Praise God for the gifts He has given to you and your obedience to living them to the fullest!
I know He will continue blessing your socks off!
~Roxanne
radlandon says
Roxanne, that is the sweetest encouragement ever! Thank you so much!
Holly (2kidsandtired) says
I love this so much. Thank you for the much needed encouragement this morning.
Crystal says
Hi Shanti,
I have been so blessed by your posts! I too have 5 children and a very busy household!
My house is usually very ‘Lived In’ and is filled with Joyful chaotic noise of Kids and Dogs and activity…I know that quality time with the family is a gift that is irreplaceable! Keep on knowing that your children will benefit from all the love and time you pour into them. (Prov. 22:6, Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it) Remember God chose you to be their Mom, and He has equipped you for them all. You are a shining example of Proverbs 31 woman (Prov 31:28 Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her:) Thank you! Blessings!
radlandon says
Thank you!!